Bagaimana Mengatasi Gap Komunikasi

Ubaydillah, AN

Dalam kehidupan sehari-hari, baik di kantor maupun dalam lingkungan keluarga, seringkali dijumpai adanya gap
dalam berkomunikasi. Gap tersebut menyebabkan perbedaan persepsi antara pihak yang satu dengan pihak yang
lain dan tidak jarang hal ini menimbulkan kerugian di kedua belah pihak. Jika dilihat secara cermat maka pemicu
terjadinya kesenjangan komunikasi tersebut seringkali bukan terletak pada persoalan fakta melainkan sebatas citra
yang kemudian membedakan pemahaman terhadap rasa. Sebab faktanya, kedua belah pihak (atasan-bawahan,
anak-orangtua, suami-istri, dst) saling membutuhkan dan ketika sudah dijelaskan/dipertem ukan, semua persoalan
atau mayoritasnya bisa saling memahami. Jika anda menyaksikan pihak-pihak yang saling membenci, maka bisa jadi
penyebabnya bukan karena mempunyai watak-watak yang menjadi alasan untuk dibenci tetapi karena faktor
komunikasi semata.


Karena lebih banyak bisa dikaitkan dengan persoalan bagaimana membentuk citra agar menghasilkan pemahaman
rasa yang enak, maka yang dibutuhkan dalam berkomunikasi sebenarnya adalah usaha untuk mengubah diri ke
arah yang lebih baik, terutama sikap, tindakan, dan perasaan. Artinya, bagaimana anda memperlakukan orang lain
menjadi cermin dari bagaimana anda memperlakukan diri sendiri dan selanjutnya bagaimana orang lain
memperlakukan anda merupakan feedback dari perlakuan anda terhadap mereka. Bagaimana caranya mengubah
diri ke arah yang lebih baik? Ada baiknya ada perhatikan tiga hal berikut ini:

Assertive

Secara definitif bisa dijelaskan bahwa sikap assertive merupakan manifestasi dari perbaikan yang serius dalam hal
bagaimana anda "memperhitungkan" keberadaan orang lain tanpa sedikitpun mengurangi perhitungan terhadap
keberadaan anda dengan cara konstruktif dan fair. Memperhitungkan orang lain artinya mengakui bahwa semua
manusia punya hak berbeda dengan kesamaan yang dimiliki, bukan menghakimi perbedaannya.

Di sisi lain, dengan pengakuan tersebut tidak berarti anda kehilangan "standing of points". Karena jika kehilangan,
bukan lagi assertive, melainkan permissive atau aggressive. Anda mengatakan YA atau TIDAK dengan alasannya
masing-masing. Tetapi jangan lupa bahwa pendirian anda tersebut diungkapkan dengan cara yang polite but firm.
Di sinilah keahlian menggunakan ‘bahasa hidup’ menentukan. Oleh karena itu diakui bahwa bagaimana orang
menggunkan bahasa menjadi cermin kualitas nalarnya. Menyampaikan gagasan perbaikan kepada atasan tentu
berbeda bahasanya dengan menyampaikannya di depan rekan kerja. Sikap assertive akan menempatkan anda
pada posisi untuk dihormati, bukan untuk dimanfaatkan. Bedanya sangat tipis.

Empathy

Bagaimana anda menyelami wilayah yang dirasakan oleh orang lain tetapi anda tidak melarutkan diri di dalamnya.
Sebagai atasan, dibutuhkan untuk merasakan situasi seperti bagaimana bawahan anda merasakan atau sebaliknya
untuk memahami apa yang benar-benar dibutuhkan. Istilah yang lebih memudahkan adalah pengandaian dua
arah. Pengandaian ini akan menajamkan sensitivity of feeling. Analogi lain bisa digambarkan bagaimana seorang
pengacara yang menjadi pembebas rakyat tertindas. Ia akan menjadi pembebas ketika ia memahami apa yang
dirasakan oleh rakyat tertindas itu tetapi segara akan menjadi tertindas jika hanya sekedar merasakan apa yang
dirasakan oleh rakyat yang tertindas. Bedanya sangat tipis.

Dalam berkomunikasi dengan lingkungan, maka yang anda butuhkan adalah memahami apa yang dirasakan oleh
mitra anda. Untuk bisa memahami menuntut lebih banyak bisa mendengarkan. Stephen Covey mengistilahkan "seek
to understand first". Pada prakteknya, orang lebih memilih untuk lebih dulu dipahami; lebih dulu berbicara tentang
dirinya sebelum lebih dulu mendengarkan orang lain; lebih dulu menuntut hak sebelum kewajiban disempurnakan.

Bekerjasama

Kenyataan sejarah membuktikan bahwa tindakan co-operative (bekerjasama) akhirnya lebih menguntungkan dari
pada tindakan konfrontatif ketika konflik menuntut untuk diselesaikan. Jika kenyatannya orang lebih tertarik
menyelesaikan urusan komunikasi dengan cara konfrontatif, maka sebagian penyebabnya karena lebih gampang
dan lebih singkat selain juga tidak memerlukan kecerdasan dalam kadar tinggi. Dan seringkali cara konfrontatif
menjadi penjelasan dari pertarungan egoisme posisi semata bukan untuk menjelaskan jalan menuju realisasi misi,
visi, dan tujuan. Padahal yang benar – benar anda butuhkan adalah realisasi dari apa yang anda inginkan bukan
egoisme posisi.

Ketika anda berhubungan dengan orang lain dalam bentuk apapun, sadarilah bahwa anda berbeda dan begitu
mendapatkan persoalan yang menciptakan perbedaan dalam cara memahami dan menyelesaikan, maka pilihannya
hanya dua: anda mempertentangkan perbedaan tersebut karena egoisme posisi; atau anda mengubah perbedaan
menjadi kekuatan sinergis dengan menciptakan alternative ketiga: saya, kamu, dan kita yang berarti misi dan visi
bersama. Sekian kali lagi, bedanya sangat tipis. Semoga berguna.

For Business and Professional Speakers - Developing and delivering your speech
by Patricia Fripp, CSP, CPAE

One of the best ways to promote your product or service and expand your customer base is also one of the cheapest. Interested? It's public speaking. I know this from first hand experience.

When I started out, I had no public speaking experience, but I studied what the professional speakers did. What I learned from watching them helped me develop and deliver my first talk. Here, short and sweet, are some of the best principles and techniques I've learned and developed in speaking for the last two decades, customized for all you shaking-in-your- boots, but-eager-to- enhance-your- business non-speakers.

Why should I give talks?

Talking about what you do is exciting, fun, and great publicity. Then I owned a hairstyling business. I started talking about it at local service organizations like Rotary, Kiwanis, and Optimists, and then for businesses belonging to my clients. My talks increased my hairstyling business. How did I know?

If I spoke at a breakfast meeting, three members of that audience would make appointments for lunchtime the same day. Your results may not be quite as dramatic -- you may be selling cemetery plots, construction equipment, or financial services - but, I guarantee that an effective talk is going to bring you recognition, eventual business, and add to your company's public relations.

What do I talk about?

What do you know that other people want to know? What do you know that other people should know? What are the questions people ask you most often about your business, opinions or life experiences?

If you want the podium to be a vehicle for promoting your product or service, you have an excellent starting point. I wanted people to know how terrific my hair design salon was, but no one is eager to listen to a sales pitch. Instead, I talked about the importance of appearance and about customer service. My speeches were indirectly about my business. I had a drawing of business cards and gave away a free hairstyle to the winner; these business cards could then be added to my salon mailing list. I had at least one person go back and report to their service club about their pleasant experience at my salon.

Who is my audience?

Sometimes you have a topic and have to find the right audiences for it. Other times you're asked to speak but don't know what to talk about. Recently, a friend asked for my help with a talk she had been asked to present. I told her about three vital audience questions to ask yourself as you develop your speech:


* Who will be in my audience?
* How long will my talk be?
* Why have they asked me to speak?
* Consider your audience's needs and desires as you develop every aspect of your speech.


Where do I get material?

This is the question I'm asked most often. You'd think that, after nearly two decades of professional speaking, I'd run out of things to say, but just the opposite is true. I am constantly discovering new material everywhere. Here's how.

1. Review your own experiences.

When top speaker Danny Cox decided to go professional, he went to the beach with a pad and pencil. He reviewed his life, making a list of the experiences and situations that could serve as good (or bad) examples for other people -- high points and low points, failures and successes.
Make a similar list. Include those sudden and stunning bits of insight that come to you in the shower or car. Or maybe you said something to a friend that was particularly funny or memorable. Relive your life and write it all down. Eventually, some of these experiences will become the original stories you use to illustrate a key point in your speech.

2. Start clipping and collecting.

While no audience wants to hear you tell other people's recycled stories, there is one exception. When you read or hear something that makes you laugh, cry or just interests you, clip it out or write it down. File it in a folder, or your word processor. Then share it, along with your own comments and reactions.

3. Keep a journal.

If you're going to be addressing a particular group a few weeks from now, keep a small notebook handy to jot down ideas and situations related to your topic and audience. Then, when you actually sit down to write, you'll have plenty of material.

How do I organize my talk?

There are two basic outlines that work well for the beginning speaker.

1. The Alcoholics Anonymous format.

AA members use this when they stand up and "qualify" their experiences:

* This is where I was.
* This is where I am now.
* This is how I got here.

This simple outline can help you tell the audience who you are and why you are qualified to speak on the topic you've chosen. Here's how we developed my friend's speech. She had been asked to present a 25-minute speech for the local Board of Realtors because of her great success in real estate. I suggested she use the AA outline and open like this: "Twelve years ago, when I went into the real estate business, I had never sold anything but Girl Scout cookies and hadn't done well with that." (This is where I was.) "Last year, I sold $15 million of real estate in a slow market, selling homes that averaged $150,000 each." (This is where I am now.) "Today, I'll tell you how I did that." (This is how I got here.)

2. The Q & A format.

List the questions your prospects, clients, and friends ask you most often about your business. Then open your talk with, "The five questions I am most frequently asked about investments (or engineering or whatever your field is) are..."

Pose the first question to the audience, and answer it for them in a conversational manner, just as you would to a potential customer or someone you meet at a party. You may never have given a speech before, but you certainly have a lot of practice answering these questions.

How do I write my speech?

1. Open with a bang.

The first and last thirty seconds of your speech have the most impact, so give them extra thought, time, and effort. If you haven't hooked your audience's interest, their minds are going to wander off. Whatever you do, don't waste any of your precious seconds with "Ladies and Gentlemen, it is a pleasure to be here tonight." Open with an intriguing or startling statement: "Half the people in this room are going to," "As a young man, my father gave me this valuable advice...," "Of all the questions I am most frequently asked..."

2. Use humor cautiously.

Opening a speech with a joke or funny story is the conventional wisdom, but nothing falls flatter than inappropriate humor. A friend who works at AT&T was convinced a joke was the only way to start a speech. He called me late one night, frantic to find the perfect joke for his boss to use the next day. First, I quizzed him about the theme and purpose of the meeting, then regaled him every related joke I knew. Nothing sounded right to him.

Finally, I asked if his boss was funny. "No!" he answered emphatically. Then, I said, "you're going to make your boss look like an idiot in front of the troops." I suggested opening with an inspirational quote instead. We chose one, and the speech was a great success.

Before you use humor to open your talk, test each possibility by asking:

* Is it appropriate to the occasion and for the audience?
* Is it in good taste?
* Does it relate to me, my product or service, the event, or the group?
* Does it support my topic or its key points?

If you can't answer yes to these questions, choose a different opening. It's safer and more effective to tell the audience what they most want to know from you. For example, I helped a neighbor, Mike Powell, with a speech he was putting together for the Continental Breakfast Club in San Francisco. Mike was a senior scientist with Genentech at the time. I suggested that since most of us don't know what scientists are like or what they do, he should tell the audience what it was like to be a scientist. Mike captured everyone's attention by saying, "Being a scientist is like doing a jigsaw puzzle in a snowstorm at night...you don't have all the pieces...and you don't have the picture you are trying to create."

You can say more with less. Think about your audience. What is the information they want the most from you? If you know your business, you'll be able to predict what their questions will be simply by experience. If you're not sure what a particular audience might want to hear, talk to the program chair ahead of time and get that information.

3. Develop strong supporting stories.

If you're using the Alcoholics Anonymous outline format, the middle of your talk is where you expand on your key points and develop personal stories that support where you were and where you are now. In the Q&A format, develop one or two strong anecdotes to support each answer. Personal anecdotes are best, but you can also insert some of the ideas and examples you've been gathering in your journal or computer.

4. Close on a high note.

Your close should be the high point of your speech. First, summarize the key elements of the investment process (or whatever your topic is). If you're planning to take questions from the audience, say, "Before my closing remarks, are there any questions." Answer them then.

The last thirty seconds of your speech must send people out energized and fulfilled. Finish your talk with something inspirational that supports your theme. My scientist friend Mike talked of the frustrations of being a scientist, and he closed by saying, "People often ask, Why should anyone want to be a scientist?" Then Mike told them about a particularly information- intensive medical conference he had attended. The final speaker rose and said, "I am a thirty-two-year- old wife and mother of two. I have AIDS. Please work fast."

Mike got a standing ovation for his speech. He was telling his audience what they needed to know.

* How do I polish it?
* Your next step is to make a written draft of your speech. You can assemble your notes, or you may prefer to talk your ideas into a tape recorder and transcribe the words. You've still got more work to do. Read your draft over to confirm that it is:

Interesting
After every point you make, ask yourself, "Who cares?" If no one does, edit it out.
On track
Did you go off on a tangent that doesn't relate to your main theme? Edit it out.

Concise
Are you redundant, saying the same thing three ways? Are there cliches like "Without further ado," "that's a tough act to follow," etcetera? Edit out all non-essential words and phrases.

Effective
Are your supporting examples strong and on target? If not, replace them.

Personal
Does it have a high I-You Factor? Be sure you've connected yourself with your audience by putting them into your speech. If your subject were financial planning, a low I-You Factor would be: "I always pay myself first. Not the recommended 10 percent. I save 20 percent of my gross income." Your audience would probably be rolling their eyes and thinking, "Yeah, right..." But if, instead, you said: "We're all hurting in this economy. That's why saving money is more important than ever. Your goal is to get something -- anything! -- out of each check. Sometimes I can manage to squeeze out up to 10 percent, but I know that even 1 percent is essential if I'm going to maintain the habit of paying myself first. That 1 percent is the difference between winning and losing." You've put your audience in your speech. Instead of scoffing, they are more likely to identify with what you're saying.

Politically correct
"PC" is sometimes overdone, but it is essential. Consider the opening of an address by cartoonist Gary Trudeau at Yale: "...Distinguished faculty, graduating seniors, people of color, colorful people, people of height, the vertically challenged, people of hair, the differently coifed, the optically challenged, the temporarily sighted, the insightful, the out of sight, the homeless, the home boys..." Trudeau was poking fun at political correctness, but if you don't use inclusive language, you may offend and lose part of your audience. The safest (and politest) thing is to call people what they want to be called. Refer to adult females as women. Say "physically challenged" rather than "disabled." Whether you're talking about managing employees, or selling cars, your stories need to reflect a balance of male and female. Remember not all doctors are "he's", not all nurses are "she's." Ask the program chair if there are any terms and phrases you should avoid or include.


Vigorous polishing makes your talk tighter, more powerful, and less likely to bore or irritate your audience.
How do I rehearse?

You've edited and fine-tuned a written version of your talk. Now you're going to practice it. (You may think this is too much trouble, but you'll be glad you did.)


1. Read your talk out loud.
Read your written talk into a tape recorder to get some idea of timing and emphasis. When you are happy with it, go on to step 2.

2. Prepare outline notes.
Even though you've just gone to a great deal of trouble to prepare a written speech, you're NOT going to read it! Nothing puts an audience to sleep faster. Instead, you're going to speak directly and spontaneously to the audience, maintaining essential eye contact. The secret is to prepare easy-to-read notes. Write your key points on a pad or card that you'll keep on the lectern or table. Use a bold felt-tip pen or a large typeface on your laser printer. As you speak, you'll follow your road map with quick glances. An easy-to-read wristwatch or small clock on the lectern lets you keep track of the time so you can speed up or slow down, cut or add material, and you finish on time.

3. Tape your "impromptu" talk.
Again, check for timing. As you play back your tape, notice repetitive phrases and non-words like "er" and "ah." Try again, minus these distracting irritants, until you are speaking smoothly and confidently.

4. Practice in front of an audience.
Ask one or two perceptive people for their feedback. Make it clear that you want constructive criticism, not just praise. Did they understand the points you were making? Was there a lack of logic or continuity? Did they think you spoke too quickly or slowly? Use their feedback to polish your presentation.

Now you're nearly ready to do your talk. You have one more task. Am I done writing now? No. Write your own introduction and bring a printed copy to your talk. Even if you're speaking for free, you want the emcee to pronounce your name right, mention your company's name, and tell people how to get in touch with you. You want all attention on you, so you don't need an introducer who rambles on or tells tired jokes.
If you're not sure what to say about yourself, use your resume as a guide, customized to fit your topic. If you've earned or been honored with impressive designations or awards, let the introducer say so. But don't include your job as a lifeguard in your intro, unless it directly relates to your subject. Don't leave anything to chance. If you're working on a stage, explain to the introducer that you'll come on stage from the wings before they leave the lectern. They need to get off the stage before the audience stops applauding.

This way, the audience looks at you instead of the emcee. You've taken center stage -- now take it away!



Daniel Gonzalez Guiza
Si Bengal Pelapis Vi-To

Cerita Dani Guiza adalah tentang pemuda pemberontak yang berpotensi menghancurkan masa depannya sendiri. Akan tetapi, Guiza bangkit dan menjadi salah satu striker yang disegani di daratan Eropa. Di timnas Spanyol, ia pun layak menjadi pelapis duet maut David Villa-Fernando Torres.

Dani Guiza, bangkit dari masa lalu yang suram. (Foto: AFP)

Sedari muda, pria kelahiran Jerez de la Fontera ini memiliki perangai yang temperamental dan susah diatur. Dirinya pernah bersembunyi di balik pohon agar tidak perlu mengikuti sesi lari sewaktu menjadi pemain akademi Xerez.

Guiza datang dari kelas yang kurang beruntung, seperti kebanyakan anak-anak senasibnya, hidupnya tidak terlepas dari jalanan. Dirinya juga tidak pernah tertarik untuk mengecap pendidikan formal.

“Di kepala saya hanya ada sepakbola. Tidak pernah terpikirkan untuk mencoba yang lain sejak pertama menendang bola,” cetus pemain berusia 28 tahun ini kepada As.

Akan tetapi, karena perilakunya menjelang remaja yang bandel dan menyukai kehidupan malam, karier Guiza sebagai pemain profesional naik relatif telat. Ia sempat memperkuat Mallorca dan Barcelona B, tapi karena sikapnya yang nyeleneh itu, ia tidak pernah menjadi favorit di mata pelatih.

Untuk menggambarkan kebandelannya, sewaktu pertama membela Mallorca pada musim 1999, Guiza pernah tertidur saat menyaksikan sesi analisis menggunakan video di hadapan Luis Aragones, pelatih Mallorca ketika itu.

Untung semua itu berubah saat ia menemukan pasangan hidupnya, Nuria Bermudez (28), di Getafe pada 2006. Agen bersertifikat FIFA yang menjadi kekasihnya ini mengantarkan pemain bengal itu ke arah yang benar.

Guiza menggebrak La Liga dan berhasil mengantar Azulones menempati posisi sembilan di musim 2005-06. Pemain yang ketika itu berusia 25 tahun ini mencetak sembilan gol.

Pada musim berikutnya, ia mencetak 11 gol dan menjadi kesayangan publik Coliseum Alfonso Perez. “Dani adalah penyerang terbaik La Liga setelah Ronaldo de Lima,” ucap Angel Torres, Presiden Getafe, dengan bangga ketika itu.

Pada awal 2007 Mallorca pun kembali memanggil. Di Stadion ONO Estadi, pemain dengan nomor punggung 14 ini menyabet gelar pichichi (top scorer La Liga) dengan 27 gol. Uniknya tidak ada satu pun gol yang berasal dari titik penalti.

Dari situlah dirinya dilirik ke tim nasional Spanyol. Debut timnasnya adalah pada pertandingan terakhir Spanyol di babak kualifikasi Piala Eropa 2008 melawan Irlandia Utara di Las Palmas, 21 November 2007.

Pengganti Mumpuni

Fernando Torres dan David Villa memang menjadi andalan timnas Spanyol. Akan tetapi, La Furia Roja juga perlu pemain pengganti dengan kualitas mumpuni yang bisa menambal duet Vi-To (Villa-Torres) jika mereka absen. Dani Guiza naik panggung untuk menempati slot tersebut.

Guiza membuktikan diri lewat dua golnya di Euro 2008. Ia mencetak gol pertamanya bagi Spanyol sewaktu menceploskan gol penentu kemenangan La Furia Roja atas Yunani di pertandingan terakhir Grup D. Gol lewat sundulan itu terjadi pada menit ke-88.

Ketika itu Spanyol menurunkan tim lapis kedua dan penampilan Guiza menarik banyak perhatian. Walau gagal menceploskan tendangannya dalam adu penalti dengan Italia di perempatfinal, penyerang dengan tinggi 180 cm ini melesakkan gol penutup ke gawang Igor Akinfeev saat Spanyol menghabisi Rusia 3-0 di semifinal.

Torehan dua gol dari empat pertandingan di Austria-Swiss merupakan rekor yang sangat baik mengingat dirinya bukan pilihan utama. Suatu bukti cukup bahwa pemain yang tenang di depan gawang ini adalah big tournament player.

Setelah Euro 2008, Guiza mengikuti Aragones dan pindah ke Fenerbahce. Klub Turki itu menggelontorkan 17 juta euro (222,8 miliar rupiah) untuk mendapatkan jasa pichichi satu ini. Guiza menandatangani kontrak empat tahun dengan klub yang kerap membuat kejutan di kompetisi Eropa itu.

Publik Spanyol sebenarnya kecewa karena sang pichichi hijrah ke belantara liga Eropa yang relatif tidak dikenal. Bisa jadi tindakan ini adalah ungkapan dari si bengal untuk membayar perilakunya yang kurang baik kepada sang pelatih saat membinanya di Mallorca dulu. (cw-3)

DANI GUIZA
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Nama Lengkap: Daniel Gonzalez Guiza
Tempat/Tanggal Lahir: Jerez de la Frontera, Spanyol/17 Agustus 1980
Postur: 182 cm/80 kg
Posisi: Striker
Klub: Fenerbahce

Karier
1998-1999 Xerez 0/0
1999-2002 Mallorca 7/1
1999-2000 Dos Hermanas 22/8 (Pinjaman)
2002-2003 Recreativo 4/0
2003 Barcelona B 15/5
2003-2005 Murcia 81/36
2005-2007 Getafe 61/20
2007-2008 Mallorca 37/27
2008- sekarang Fenerbahce 5/1

Tim Nasional Spanyol
2007- sekarang 11/2
Debut Spanyol vs Irlandia Utara, 21 November 2007





Faktor Nuria

Semua pria pasti mempunyai belahan hati dalam bentuk wanita pasangannya yang sedikit banyak berperan dalam seluk beluk hidupnya.

Bagi Dani Guiza, seorang Nuria Bermudez adalah figur kekasih yang tepat. Lebih lanjut lagi, wanita berparas seksi ini adalah agen bersertifikat FIFA yang kini mewakili Guiza. Pasangan ini pertama bertemu saat Guiza masih bermain di Getafe. Ketika itu Bermudez adalah mantan model yang terkenal di dunia malam Madrid.

Wanita asli ibu kota Spanyol itu juga terkenal untuk pose beraninya di majalah-majalah dewasa Spanyol dan kebiasaannya membeberkan hubungan mesra dengan beberapa pemain sepakbola top, termasuk Luis Figo, Cristiano Ronaldo dan, menurut beberapa sumber, David Beckham.

Walau begitu, Bermudez-lah yang menyelamatkan masa depan kekasihnya. Pada awal karier, Guiza kerap berpindah tim walau dicap sebagai pemain masa depan terbaik Spanyol. Guiza memang terkenal sebagai seorang pemabuk dan party goer akut.

Saat bergabung dengan Getafe, dirinya pernah terkena infeksi perut karena terlampau banyak minum alkohol. Ia pun terpaksa minum makanan cair dan bubur setiap hari. Perlahan tapi pasti, banyak pihak percaya bahwa karier Guiza menurun.

Untung itu semua berubah sejak dirinya bertemu Bermudez. Wanita seksi ini justru dapat mengendalikan perangai Guiza, yang cenderung memberontak. Bermudez juga mulai mengatur gaya hidup dan berpakaian sang bintang.

“Sejak Dani bersama dengan Nuria, ia tiba tepat waktu di latihan dan tidak kelihatan berantakan lagi,” ucap Bernd Schuster, pelatih Getafe ketika itu, seperti dikutip Guardian.

“Akhirnya Dani menunjukkan permainan terbaiknya. Terima kasih, Nuria,” ucap salah satu banner di Coliseum, kandang Getafe. Pada 1 Desember 2007, sang model pun mempunyai satu anak dari Guiza yang juga bernama Daniel. (cw-3)





Panah untuk Kiko

Dani Guiza punya cara unik setiap kali menjebol gawang lawan. Pencetak gol terbanyak Liga Spanyol musim lalu ini selalu berlari ke sudut lapangan dan berlutut sembari menarik sebuah busur panah bayangan dan membidik sasaran imajiner.

Mengenai selebrasi golnya yang cukup menarik di mata itu, Guiza mengakui bahwa “gaya memanah” itu adalah penghormatan terhadap Kiko Narvaez, sang pahlawan. Kiko adalah striker Spanyol yang membela Atletico Madrid antara tahun 1993-2001.

“Kiko menyempatkan diri untuk datang melatih kami ketika ia masih bermain di Cadiz. Kesempatan itu sangat berharga bagi saya karena sebagai anak berumur sembilan tahun ketika itu, saya bisa belajar banyak hal. Sejak dari itu saya mengagumi Kiko” cetus pemain jebolan akademi Xerez ini kepada AS.

Penyerang yang sempat merumput bersama Barcelona B ini menambahkan walaupun Kiko hanya melatih seminggu sekali, kehadiran pemain timnas Spanyol ini memberi motivasi tambahan bagi dirinya.

Kiko dan Guiza sendiri sama-sama berasal dari Jerez de la Frontera, suatu daerah di Provinsi Cadiz di Spanyol Barat. Jerez sendiri terkenal akan Sirkuit Permanente de Jerez, trek balapan yang menjadi agenda tahunan Motogp dan ajang tes untuk mobil-mobil jet darat Formula 1. (cw-3)