Winner vs Loser

The Winner is always part of the answer;
The Loser is always part of the problem.

The Winner is always has a program;
The Loser always has an excuse.

The Winner says,"Let me do it for you;
The Loser says;" That is not my job."

The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
The Loser sees a problem for every answer.

The Winner says," It may be difficult but it is possible";
The Loser says,"It may be possible but it is too difficult."

When a Winner makes a mistake, he says," I was wrong";
When a Loser makes a mistake, he says," It wasn't my fault."

A Winner makes commitments;
A Loser makes promises.

Winners have dreams;
Loser have schemes.

Winners say," I must do something";
Losers say,"Something must be done."

Winners are a part of the team;
Losers are apart from the team.

Winners see the gain;
Losers see the pain.

Winners see possibilities;
Losers see problems.

Winners believe in win/win; Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.


Winners see the potential;
Losers see the past.

Winners are like a thermostat;
Losers are like thermometers.

Winners choose what they say;
Losers say what they choose.

Winners use hard arguments but soft words;
Losers use soft arguments but hard words.

Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;
Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.

Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you
would, not want them to do to you";
Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you."

Winners make it happen;
Losers let it happen.

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Jika kita benar-benar ini mencintai, kita harus belajar bagaimana memaafkan.
(Bunda Teresa)

Mencederai membuat anda lebih rendah dari musuh anda; membalas dendam
membuat anda setara dengan musuh anda; memaafkan membuat anda lebih tinggi
darinya. (Benjamin Franklin)

Waktu adalah aset yang paling berharga, tetapi sayangnya
kita cenderung untuk menghambur-hamburkan, membunuh,
dan menghabiskannya, ketimbang menggunakan sebaik
mungkin untuk berinvestasi (Jim Rohn)

Karakteristik yang paling mendasar dari oran sukses bukanlah kekuatan
atau pengetahuan tetapi kemuan (Napoleon Hill)

Persoalannya bukanlah masalah Anda. Melainkan sikap Anda,
bagaimana menangani masala. (John. C. Maxwell)

Kita harus menggabungkan kekuatan seekor naga dan kelembutan seekor merpati,
kekuatan pikiran dan kelembutan hati. (Martin Luther King, Jr.)

Orang yang berdoa tetapi tidak berusaha adalah seperti orang yang menembakkan
panah tanpa tali busur. (Ali Bin Abi Thalib R.A.)

Sosok pahlawan lahir ketika kekalahan muncul. Kesuksesan oleh karena itu merupakan
manifestasi dari akumulasi sekian kekalahan besar yang diterima, dengan semangat untuk
menjadi pemenang (Mahatma Gandhi)

Bila anda memerlukan kata-kata untuk menggambarkan pengetahuan dan pemahaman,
itu seperti burungdalam sangkar. Memiliki sayap namun tak bisa terbang. (Kahlil Gibran)

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Strength of a Man

The strength of a man isn't seen in the width of his shoulders.
It is seen in the width of his arms that encircle you.
The strength of a man isn't in the deep tone of his voice.
It is in the gentle words he whispers.

The strength of a man isn't how many buddies he has.
It is how good a buddy he is with his kids.
The strength of a man isn't in how respected he is at work.
It is in how respected he is at home.

The strength of a man isn't in how hard he hits.
It is in how tender he touches.
The strength of a man isn't in the hair on his chest.
It is in his Heart that lies within his chest.

The strength of a man isn't how many women he's Loved.
It is in can he be true to one woman.
The strength of a man isn't in the weight he can lift.
It is in the burdens he can understand and overcome.